Cat-sitting; trash TV

Spent a fair portion of this last week house-sitting for my parents while they took a week’s holiday in Rome. In return for the use of their facilities we were tasked with some light chores including watering Dad’s plants (scarcely necessary as in the event there was barely a break in the rain the entire time we were there) and feeding/caring for their two cats, Lydia, a young female, and Emrys, a male of around 11.

Lydia has reached such a degree of rotundity under Mum’s tutelage that she has recently been put on a diet on the vet’s instruction. Emrys also appeared more than usually keen to be fed, although his demands were more targeted – he largely spurned the tinned cat food I put down for him (Lydia ate this, as well as her own) but I did catch him seemingly trying to drag a bag of Iams out of the kitchen cupboard. I’m ashamed to say I rewarded this performance by giving him some.

The atrocious weather dictated that we spent most of the time lounging around indoors, which was not without its pleasant side. Our recent changeover from Sky to Virgin Media’s basic package has deprived us of a number of cr*ppy but appealing TV channels, including Zone Romantica, offerer of some truly dreadful but entertaining fare such as Falcon Crest and both Lace mini-series, all of which we sampled during our stay. Also the absurd 80s television series Beauty and the Beast – I have no memory of ever watching this but Ruth would appear to have fond memories of it judging by the amount of time the TV has been tuned into it since she moved in. The episode we watched at my parents’ place involved the magnificent Beast overseeing a young boy’s piano playing in a subterranean cavern. I missed the inner meaning, although admittedly I was busy skimming Mum’s stack of Woman & Home magazines at the time.

After our return from Herefordshire on Sunday morning, we went for brunch at the newly-opened Alto Lounge in Caversham, part of the ‘Loungers’ chain. Coffee was a bit feeble (though that may just reflect my particular palate aka addiction), but food was lovely – thoroughly recommend the eggy bread stack with bacon and maple syrup. Ruth had a regular full English though spurned the idea of a sausage pattie. I tried telling her they’ve been doing them in McDonald’s for years, but (un)surprisingly that didn’t help.

Rabbit rescue; Legends of Kung-Fu; sat nav debut

I write this while in the damp countryside, house-sitting for my parents. It's wet and misty. There are hills hereabouts, but I can't see them at the moment.

To backtrack over the past week ... In the immediate aftermath of Jake’s death last winter, I rashly said that I’d be quite happy to have another rabbit to live at the house, so on Thursday evening Ruth dragged me along to ‘Reading Rabbit Rescue', a local animal sanctuary that takes in rabbits on behalf of the RSPCA, returns them to health if necessary and then finds them good homes if they’re suitable for adoption. It made intriguing viewing as the devoted owners have given over most of their property to the rabbits and their care - a good portion of the large garden was taken up by rabbits in runs. We were given a tour of all the rabbits who are currently up for adoption. Ruth fell for Harley, a lively young male – although as he was due for neutering two days after we saw him, I’ve suggested a return visit just to assess how lively he is in his reduced state of manhood. RRR only rehome bunnies in pairs so we’ll be getting two if we adopt from them.

In anticipation of rabbit-related high jinx at the house, here’s a picture of the late Jake chewing my Muji flip-flops. They’re still just about wearable. He developed a cute habit of picking them up and throwing them along the hallway.

Had an evening of theatrical kung fu on Monday night when we went to the Hexagon to see Shaolin Warriors: Legends of Kung-Fu. A couple of hours of seeing impressively fit chaps (and two small boys) strut their stuff. The show is a nice mixture of graceful stuff with nice lighting effects, and macho feats such as cracking metal bars on foreheads. Reading Arts’ website tells audiences to be prepared for “flesh against flesh, flesh against steel, body over spirit and mind over matter”. The show included some audience participation, which I wasn’t prepared for, but quickly realised that only boys and men were being chosen - perhaps women would have rendered the whole thing unclean.

Ray kindly agreed to lend me his sat nav for the few days' trip away this week, so I had my first ever experience of driving with it yesterday. Had expected to find it an irritating distraction and to switch it off after half an hour, but am actually somewhat converted. Initially drove from Reading to Cheddar to visit Ruth's grandmother, and was guided through the centre of Bristol and down into Somerset without incident (although we did also consult a road atlas and the passing signposts). There were a couple of occasions close to Cheddar village where the disembodied female voice failed to give directions when I could have done with them - but we theorised this might have been a reaction to Ruth's having spoken harshly to her a few minutes before. On balance, I may even get one for myself at some point.

Wednesday 6 May 2009

Ruth and I made the most of the weather for the first part of the Bank Holiday weekend by going to stay at her aunt’s house, which is in a lovely setting near the Ridgeway and the White Horse of Uffington. Went for a pleasant walk on the Saturday afternoon, enlivened by meeting some chaps parked up on a footpath in white vans, whom Ruth theorised might have been planning a rave. Not sure what they were up to, personally, although they did invite us back later for an orgy, an offer we politely declined.

On the way back we stopped off at the Rose & Crown in Ashbury for a much-needed soft drink (also a pint of cider and in my case some Arkell's Kingsdown Special Ale). The car park was full of bikers on a stop-off - Ruth took a photo of this impressive number. The chaps were more than amenable to her request to photograph it, and in fact tried to persuade her to pose sitting on it, at which she became coy and we scuttled off.

The weekend included a brief visit to Lambourn, hub of all things horsey, where I’ve driven through a number of times but never actually stopped off before. We had a quick wander around the churchyard at the Church of St Michael and All Angels – not a particularly attractive church but I did take a photo of this jolly gargoyle. We then took a look around E J Wicks, ‘Saddlers to Champions’ – an amazing emporium stacked with all manner of riding clothing and equipment. Also a charming rack of postcards depicting countryside scenes and traditions (dogs with dead pheasants in their mouths, etc). Had to have it explained to me what a girth was, but feel better informed now.

Spent a rewarding chunk of today at the Royal Berkshire Hospital undergoing various gynaecological examinations to ascertain the presence of a polyp in my uterus – the culmination of which seemed to be “Yep, it’s a polyp” (which I thought we knew anyway). Apparently it’s Royal Berks’ policy to remove such things under general rather than local anaesthetic – something to do with the type of instruments they have (vaguely worrying – perhaps they are enormous Victorian cast-iron things. A friend of mine at university did her BA dissertation on ancient Roman gynaecological instruments – we’re unfortunately no longer in touch or I’d ask her for a copy and quote pertinent passages.) Have been helpfully supplied with a leaflet outlining what to expect during a hysteroscopy, although it’s of limited use as it keeps referring one to other leaflets that one should also evidently have picked up before leaving the hospital: along the lines of “This procedure will be carried out under a general anaesthetic. For what to expect when having an operation under general anaesthetic, please refer to leaflet 592.2.1, What to expect when having an operation under general anaesthetic.”

While trying to distract myself while undergoing a lengthy scan, I was charmed to note a poster on the wall entitled ‘Malformations of the Female Genital Tract’. The sort of thing that quite interests me, actually, but I suspect some women would prefer a print of Sunflowers or similar.

Sundry irritants

As it’s been an uneventful week in terms of constructive activity, thought I would just detail various irritants, for the sole purpose of getting them off my chest:

Last Friday
Waited in at home for British Gas engineer to come and look at our ageing combi boiler, which has started dispensing hot water intermittently, as and when it feels like it. Very polite young man who did his best to be helpful, but concluded that the problem was likely to be mainly due to limescale, both of the bath taps (easily replaceable) and of the boiler’s internal heat exchanger (probably RIP boiler). He assessed the age of the boiler as ’20 years plus’ – the amusing latest in a whole series of estimates by previous engineers. When we first signed up to British Gas’s Homecare agreement, its age was assessed at around 15 years. In August 2008, a couple of years later, it had evidently undergone a bit of a rejuvenation and was estimated to be around 10 years old. In the eight months since then, things evidently haven’t gone well for it.

Sunday
Was feeling at a bit of a loose end so persuaded Ruth to come out for a bit of air. Something led me to suggest going over to Newbury to visit the Kennet & Avon Canal Trust shop which, according to the website is open on Sunday. It wasn’t, but I’ll get to that in a minute. When we arrived at Reading station to get the train, we discovered that due to engineering works, trains to Newbury were departing from Reading West station, a dilapidated haven-for-muggers a mile or so outside the town centre. We waited half an hour for a bus to take us on a 5-minute bus ride to Reading West, then waited for about another 20 minutes for the train to Newbury to depart. On arrival at Newbury, we made our way over to the Wharf to the Canal Trust shop. My vague purpose for the visit had been to buy Ray a small teapot or similar knick-knack, decorated in the classic roses and castles design. Luckily for him, though somewhat annoyingly for us, there was a typewritten notice pinned up outside the shop telling us that it was closed. To console ourselves, we spent around £100 between us on new tops from White Stuff. We also wandered up to my old school to see if we could see any evidence of the rumoured demolition of the Luker site, but everything looked much as I remembered it. Eventually made our way back to Reading around 6pm and decided to take our minds off various stresses by having a nice (and well lubricated) dinner in The Griffin.

Tuesday
Took day off work to wait in for Virgin Media men to come and install new cable TV and broadband setup. They arrived without the USB adapter that I had been reliably informed over the phone a week earlier that they would be bringing with them. Then spent quite some time detailing the complex amount of cabling that would be necessary to route the broadband line into the second bedroom, at which point I queried the necessity of so much cable for a wireless setup, to which they responded “oh yeah well if you’re having wireless you don’t need the cable”. (D’oh! Don’t they prime these people beforehand?). They eventually left and, after a few further hitches involving tedious calls to overseas call centres, I seem to be finally set up (I think). Hardly the flawless procedure that Virgin’s advertising blurb reckons it is though.

Never had wireless before and the whole set up is a bit novel. Particularly the stage just before you sign on to your own wireless network, where you get to see a list of all your neighbours’ networks as well. Reminded me of the occasion while I was living in Essex a few years ago where having the Pause button down on my portable cassette player appeared to allow me to hear my elderly neighbour on his CB radio.

Wednesday 22 April 2009

Forgot to mention in the last post my trials in attempting to obtain a bedside table (not that they’re particularly interesting). In an attempt to economise I ordered one from the online company Furniture Today, given that they seemed to have an extensive range of bedside tables at reasonable prices. It was delivered on the Tuesday after Easter and I unpacked it only to discover that one of its little legs had been snapped off (see photographic evidence, sent to the company). Phoned FT in miffed state and declined their offer to send out a repair crew. Upshot was that I spent the best part of an hour re-packing it in the original packaging (difficult) and the courier came back to collect it. I have been promised a replacement, but who knows when. FT seem to be one of those annoying companies that will contact you late in the day to say your item is being delivered tomorrow, and by the way will you be in between 8 and 6? The reply “no, I’m not unemployed, and neither are my neighbours” always seems to be met with bemusement.

Went with Ray to Homebase (after another slap-up Palmieri’s breakfast) on Saturday morning to give second opinion on several kitchens under consideration for the narrowboat. I had been assuming that the boat would require a bespoke kitchen, but am told that this is not necessarily the case. We spent some time mulling over important details such as the question of a matt vs. gloss finish, but the jury is still out as regards a final decision.

Have been downgraded by my dental surgery to only seeing the dentist on a yearly basis as apparently there’s “really nothing going on” with my teeth. Feel vaguely as though I have been put down into Set B for maths. Am to continue with regular appointments with the hygienist, though. Have hatched a personal theory that I am required to see the hygienist mainly because I have so little dental work done that the surgery simply doesn’t make money out of me otherwise. Ruth, who has had three root canals in the last five years, is never asked to see the hygienist. Theorise that she is A-list dental patient, whereas I am C-list.

Had my first brush with Pilates on Tuesday evening as Ruth and I have signed up for a six-week beginners course. Rather more complicated than I was expecting, but I will stick with it in the hope that it’ll get easier and will do something appropriately miraculous for my posture/core muscles. Must work on breathing and balancing a tennis ball on back while on all fours. Only six of us in the class, which was nice – the instructor was able to come round each of us moulding/forcing us into position where necessary.

Our monthly Book Group meeting tonight was held in the garden of the Back of Beyond pub in town – an interesting spot for a discussion of Eve Ensler’s The Vagina Monologues. We all found ourselves putting our copies of the book face down on the table, and then chiding ourselves for our prudishness. My own feelings about the VM are mixed but it certainly provoked a variety of opinions and some interesting discussion.

Slightly off topic, but I can highly recommend the King of the Hill episode Square Peg as an example of one woman’s amusing journey to become more comfortable with this word.

Rural meandering; bird survey; horsies

Most of this last week has been filled with a six-day Easter break courtesy of the University … Closure Days are truly a blessing.

I travelled to Hereford on Thursday morning to spend a couple of days with my parents. I took the slower-but-cheaper Evesham (as opposed to Newport) route, which is a pleasant 3-hour meander along the Cotswold Line passing through some pretty pastoral scenery and some absurdly small stations, at least one of them only big enough for two carriages of the eight-carriage or so train I was on. Must involve much frenzied scuttling along the train if you’ve forgotten when your station is coming up. There’s a Wikipedia entry giving a handy guide to the line. There’s also a Cotswold Line Promotion Group - not quite sure what they do. General promotion, I guess.

Went for a lovely 5-mile or so walk in the Olchon Valley on Good Friday. My father is participating in some sort of bird survey for the British Trust for Ornithology, so was armed with binoculars and a pen and notebook. Seems to involve noting all the birds you observe within a one-hour timeframe - I assume to contribute to some sort of overview of numbers, different species etc. Not sure if more points are assigned to certain species, whereby the spotting of one Magnificent Bird of Paradise – albeit improbable in Herefordshire – might be equivalent to spotting 20 song thrushes. Probably not.

Ray in his shed

I kicked off Easter Sunday by strolling up to Ray’s allotment for coffee and bacon rolls courtesy of the cunning little stove he has acquired. I was tickled to note that on the plot next to Ray’s there were the pieces of a flat-pack shed piled up. Evidently the shed anarchy is beginning! Ruth cooked a divine roast chicken in the evening - I can never be arsed to cook roasts, but they do have their place.

On Easter Monday I went to my first Point to Point meeting at Hackwood Park, near Basingstoke, organised by the Vine & Craven Hunt. It was beautiful weather – by far the nicest day of the long weekend. We cheekily managed to bag a prime picnic position near the finishing post, thanks to somebody not turning up to claim their paid-for parking spot. Inevitably, there was much braying and blustering over the tannoy about hunting and how the hunting ban risks the destruction of the entire British countryside (a consequence that needs explaining to me, frankly – but then as a townie, what do I know).

Ruth, me and Claire

The event itself was a little disappointing in the sense that most of the races were rather devoid of runners – there was speculation that they might have b*ggered off to a rival event at Lockinge on the same day. Each race had around 15 runners according to the race card, but several only had 4 runners in practice and the final race, only one – the solitary runner was awarded a walk-over, but this seemed to involve going through a bit of a bizarre ritual involving walking part of the length of the course in the company of a chaperone. The solitary horse did, unsurprisingly, win the award for best turned out horse in that race, and hopefully the jockey will have been cheered up by his winnings of a crate of London Pride. The event also included ferret racing, which we missed, but did manage to see the ferrets in their cages.

In principle, our current status as a TV-free household should be a golden opportunity for me to catch up on some reading. I did, amazingly, read a couple of (short) articles out of The Economist last night – an impressive pile of these has built up on the coffee table since Ruth started subscribing to it. Felt a virtuous sense of being on top of world affairs afterwards. I have to say, though, that I am missing trash TV.

Wednesday 8 April 2009

Wedding; sanitised pubs; Slumdog Millionaire

It was lovely weather on Saturday for Kate’s wedding at the Newbury Manor Hotel. The experience with the Newbury Manor was completely the opposite of my recent experience with the Princess on Portland in Manchester (see 4 March entry), in that this time the hotel was much nicer than (for some reason) I had been expecting. The hotel used to be called Millwaters (I always wanted to call it Milliways, but that was the Restaurant at the End of the Universe) – I’m not sure when it was renamed. It’s a lovely venue for a wedding, certainly. Our room looked out onto a little courtyard garden with stone nymphs and bamboo - all quite charming.

Ruth and I enjoyed breakfast on Sunday at the River Bar Restaurant in the former watermill on the site - lovely setting although as it’s literally on the river I’d be a bit worried if the river was high after a downpour. I compensated for unexpectedly missing out on my smoked salmon starter at the wedding breakfast by having smoked salmon and scrambled eggs. Very nice too.

On our way back on Sunday we stopped off at the Rowbarge in Woolhampton for a lunchtime drink, only to make the somewhat depressing discovery that it’s been taken over by the Blubecker’s chain and is now consequently remodelled, sanitised and family-friendly. They took over the previously-lovely Pack Horse at Chazey Heath a year or so ago, too. Bl**dy hell. I suppose it’s marginally better than the pubs having to close.

Went last night for a nice pre-film dinner at Prezzo with Claire, Helen and Ali, and then to see Slumdog Millionaire at the Town Hall. I made the mistake of trying on two pairs of jeans in Oasis beforehand and promptly felt depressed and fat, which I compensated for by ordering a rather too rich dinner of crab cakes in saffron cream accompanied by house fries. The Victoria Hall is an atmospheric venue for watching a film although the school assembly-type seating is a bit too crammed together for comfort. Hard to criticise the film itself I suppose given that it’s won so many awards, but I found it a bit unsatisfying, possibly because I’d managed to get the impression that it’s a feel-good movie, which it isn’t. Certainly it’s a happy ending in that he wins and gets the girl, but I didn’t feel that compensated for the preceding hour and a half of relentless misery – and also, the fact that Jamal gets Latika at the end is obviously meant to be the main point, but I wanted more conclusive evidence that Jamal had actually been able to bank his winnings and buy himself a nice house ….

My resolve to become more green-fingered has got off to a cautious start by sprinkling some slug pellets on the hostas, which have started to come through. I was gratified yesterday to find two dead slugs and a dead snail in the pots. Long may the slaughter continue. Cheeky gits.